What is ANR and ABR?
Anytime a man sucks on a woman breast, the couple is engaged in to a form of ANR or Adult nursing relationship. Most who are in to ANR will have frequent sessions from nightly to as much as every couple hours. Some are now and then or maybe a few times a week. The time on the breast also varies with couples and there intent.
True ANR is were the couple will have nursing sessions out side of sex. Though sex can be involved, it was not usually the intent of the ANR. Those in a true ANR often have a deeper intimate connection with each other. There sessions are often more frequent such as nightly or any opportunity they may get.
Because ANR can be with or without lactation, some people consider ANR as more of a Adult Nurturing Relationship but most call it Adult Nursing Relationship. The term Adult Nursing Relationship is often confused with a fetish known as lactofillia or erotic lactation.
Proof of Gods plan and design.
God knew what he was doing when he made woman. He gave her breasts and with them the power to heal emotional wounds. Just like they do with children they can also help her man.
God made woman to be the only creature to develop breasts at puberty before she was pregnant and keeps them long after she can no longer bare children. Women were designed in such a way that with enough stimulation from her man, she can produce milk without ever being pregnant. Her milk also has the stem cells that has been known to kill cancer cells and repair damaged tissue.
The bible clearly stated that her breasts are there for the needs of their children and her man. Otherwise, There is no other reason for the breasts to remain after the children are weaned except for the needs of her man. They add to the intimacy and bonding of there relationship.
God gave women several benefits. Her breasts can calm the house and heal emotional wounds within the family. A lactating women has a much lower risks of:
- Breast cancer
- Ovarian cancer
- Endometrial cancer
- Coronary heart disease
- Osteoporosis
- Metabolic syndrome
- Postpartum bleeding
- Rheumatoid arthritis
- Diabetic mothers require less insulin.
- Weight loss
Research has shown, women who has never lactated or lactated for a short time are at a much higher risk of the above. (See resources below) Some may say that God truly blesses and rewords those who give themselves to there spouse.
Why would someone have an ANR
There are several advantages to ANR. Some of which mentioned above but it can go much further. For most people, it brings a much stronger bond then just a love sex relationship. People in ANR enjoy the closeness and physical skin to skin contact. A deeper state of intimacy then I can explain. Most say it has strengthened there marriage and brings a deeper or more meaningful connection with each other.
Men feel a stronger sense of acceptance and being needed. ANR helps them to relax and find comfort after a stressful day.
Non lactation ANR
Most people who are in to ANR, do not have a lactating relationship. If a woman is not currently lactating. For some women, the work toward getting her to naturally lactate without having a child is often too large of a task. But not impossible. For most it's just too much work. They are good with dry nursing and the frequent time together.
There are several benefits for non lactating women as well. For example you are not on a set schedule. Frequent stimulation has a lot of the same emotional and health benefits as lactating breasts.
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Good article! ANR is a fascinating topic that deserves more discussion. But let me ask you something. Let's say that we are living in an alternate universe. And in this alternate universe the Bible does not mention anything about women's breasts at all. Nothing. All references are gone. Would you still support the subject of ANR? If you still would. Why? BTW I am Ray Stone. I have written some posts for Christ Centered ANR. People need to learn the truth about this topic. Every loving couple should be doing this
ReplyDeleteYes I would. The bible is a point of acceptance. It shows people that ANR has been around and accepted for centuries.
DeleteANR is about two people coming together and expressing their love for each other in their own way.
Biblical references aside, I would actually say you could justify ANR based on health benefits and science reasearch. True breast milk can indeed have positive health benefits to your partner. I've also read several trial case studies where breast milk saved one person suffereing from rare intestinal issues as well as treated family members for Cancer. If breastmilk can do that what else can it do? There are some amazing properties of breastmilk that yet have been defined and I think the more ANR becomes less taboo and heavily researched we may find more cures or really healthy people!
DeleteThis has to be a "couple" relationship? ANR can't just be random?
ReplyDeleteTrue. But there are those who are into it for other reasons. Such as health or emotional benefits. Those people who are into it but don't have relationship would be considered as just in an Adult BreastFeeding (ABF). Same would goes for those singles who would like an ANR or not sure but like to try it before getting into a relationship with someone who may not want the same thing.
DeleteMy Husband and I are devout believers and grateful followers of the living Christ; and I cannot find words to thank God enough for our ANR. We have never been closer and are seeing real healing in our marriage as a result of this intimate contact and time together. I believe every marriage partnership should include this beautiful act of bonding. Furthermore, I AM pleased that the Bible IS written so clearly in support of this, but if no mention were found in the Bible I still believe we would be in an ANR relationship as we feel God has given us His blessing through prayer
ReplyDeleteThank you. I wish more people could see how clearly it is written. Sadly people tend to ignore the truth even when it is right there in front of them. they tend to look for other meaning or assume it to be a fetish.
DeleteI would like to find a husband to have an anr with. I think its a great bonding time that God gave us.
ReplyDeleteThank you. Here is a link that may help those looking to find their true love or ANR.
Deletehttps://understandinganr.blogspot.com/
I'm praying for a ANR relationship
ReplyDeleteThis may help you find what you are looking for.
Deletehttps://understandinganr.blogspot.com/2019/12/how-to-find-adult-breastfeeding.html
And this may help someone who needs help understanding.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q7utjTrt2m8&list=PLMiAh2J01AihIN7lP4B8sykqL4tooqSOY&index=1
Good luck.
There are no biblical references to this practice.Not even one.
ReplyDeleteThat depends on your perception of what you are calling practice. ANR is not a practice. It’s a way of expressing affection for each other.
DeleteWith that, you need to first understand what ANR really is.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q7utjTrt2m8&list=PLMiAh2J01AihIN7lP4B8sykqL4tooqSOY&ab_channel=TrueANR
https://www.instagram.com/true_anr/?hl=en
ANR is in the bible. Just not with a given name such as ANR. But what you might be calling a practice is. Here are some links that can clearly apply to ANR in the bible.
One of the best ones I found is here
http://brodela.blogspot.com/2012/11/the-breast-argument-biblical-perspective.html
I am a woman!!
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