Christian Adult Nursing Relationships
What is ANR and ABR?
Anytime a man sucks on a woman breast, the couple is engaged in to a form of ANR or Adult nursing relationship. Most who are in to ANR will have frequent sessions from nightly to as much as every couple hours. Some are now and then or maybe a few times a week. The time on the breast also varies with couples and there intent.
True ANR is were the couple will have nursing sessions out side of sex. Though sex can be involved, it was not usually the intent of the ANR. Those in a true ANR often have a deeper intimate connection with each other. There sessions are often more frequent such as nightly or any opportunity they may get.
Because ANR can be with or without lactation, some people consider ANR as more of a Adult Nurturing Relationship but most call it Adult Nursing Relationship. The term Adult Nursing Relationship is often confused with a fetish known as lactofillia or erotic lactation.
ABR or Adult Breastfeeding Relationship
is the same as ANR. Some people like to say the goal of ABR is to get
and keep her milk flowing. But in reality, there is no difference
except how you want to word it.
ANR is not a fetish. When a man suggests an ANR, it does not mean he wants to be treated like a baby. Most men do find other benefits such as comfort, relief from stress and anxieties while on the breasts weather up against them or sucking on them. Some women assume he wants a role playing relationship or has a fetish. This is a false assumption, with that she may rejects the idea and the man basic need or desire will never be met. This can lead to feelings of rejection, depression and added anxieties.
Proof of Gods plan and design.
God knew what he was doing when he made woman. He gave her breasts and with them the power to heal emotional wounds. Just like they do with children they can also help her man.
God made woman to be the only creature to develop breasts at puberty before she was pregnant and keeps them long after she can no longer bare children. Women were designed in such a way that with enough stimulation from her man, she can produce milk without ever being pregnant. Her milk also has the stem cells that has been known to kill cancer cells and repair damaged tissue.
The bible clearly stated that her breasts are there for the needs of their children and her man. Otherwise, There is no other reason for the breasts to remain after the children are weaned except for the needs of her man. They add to the intimacy and bonding of there relationship.
God gave women several benefits. Her breasts can calm the house and heal emotional wounds within the family. A lactating women has a much lower risks of:
and other benefits include
Research has shown, women who has never lactated or lactated for a short time are at a much higher risk of the above. (See resources below) Some may say that God truly blesses and rewords those who give themselves to there spouse.
Why would someone have an ANR
There are several advantages to ANR. Some of which mentioned above but it can go much further. For most people, it brings a much stronger bond then just a love sex relationship. People in ANR enjoy the closeness and physical skin to skin contact. A deeper state of intimacy then I can explain. Most say it has strengthened there marriage and brings a deeper or more meaningful connection with each other.
Men feel a stronger sense of acceptance and being needed. ANR helps them to relax and find comfort after a stressful day.
Non lactation ANR
Most people who are in to ANR, do not have a lactating relationship. If a woman is not currently lactating. For some women, the work toward getting her to naturally lactate without having a child is often too large of a task. But not impossible. For most it's just too much work. They are good with dry nursing and the frequent time together.
There are several benefits for non lactating women as well. For example you are not on a set schedule. Frequent stimulation has a lot of the same emotional and health benefits as lactating breasts.
Understanding ANR and How to find love without match service traps.
Clean friendly youtube videos that can help you understand adult breastfeeding relationships.
Christian links
http://brodela.blogspot.com/2012/11/the-breast-argument-biblical-perspective.html
https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/christian_adult_nursing_relationships/info
http://leftmostfew.blogspot.com/2010/07/guide-for-couples-lactation.html?m=1
